As a busy mom I spend the majority of my day feeding, changing, bathing, dressing, hugging, playing, reading, redressing and loving my children.Like most moms, I’ve had days where I’ve managed to dress up a little and do my hair and makeup in the morning, but by the time I left the house, my children had already re-arranged my hair, my face, and my clothes!
Other days, I’ve had to laugh when my baby has run commando around the house after deciding he didn’t like wearing diapers for the tenth time that day!
And despite the ups and downs, these are the everyday routines that most moms learn to love as they watch their children progress. But for me, even though I had all the basics down, the part of motherhood that had me concerned was…
“How Can I Give My Children
The Social Skills,
Intellectual Development,
And Self Confidence That
They Will Need To Be
Successful In Life?!”
I’m sure that as a parent you have felt the same way too, so I started to research ways that would not only work well, but also be a lot of fun for the kids.
That’s when I stumbled across something that changed my life.
Let me explain…
One day while researching online I found a site that talked about the benefits of baby sign language!
It was interesting to me because I had actually studied sign language in high school and college, but didn’t realize how beneficial it was to teach my kids!
After reading this I started to become obsessed with learning more. I began brushing up on my sign language and learning how to teach it to my kids. I ended up buying stacks of baby sign language books; I searched the internet for as much information, resources and research that I could to decide the best way to teach my kids!
An amazing part of the story is that my aunt has a master’s degree in deaf education. I explained to her what I was learning about, and she told me that she actually had a lot of experience using sign language with newborn babies!
“That’s When I Decided To
Use Sign Language
With My First Child”
A few months later my little girl was born. We named her Annie.
At first she would just stare at me, but soon I noticed she started to respond to the signs I would teach her.
The first sign she recognized was “eat.” As soon as I signed “eat” she would instantly start looking for what food I was going to give her!
Right after that she started to make signs to communicate back to me!
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When she was hungry, she would sign “eat”
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When she was tired, she would sign “sleep”
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When she was thirsty, she would sign “milk”
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And the list goes on and on…
As she grew older, it got even better! In fact, before she was even a year old, every time she would get frustrated and start to throw a tantrum, I would just ask her to sign what was wrong to me…
… and 9 times out of 10 she used the sign to get her point across and the conflict was resolved!!!
By the time Annie turned 18 months old, she knew over 150 signs and could speak in full sentences! By 21 months she had memorized “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star” and was speaking almost like an adult when most of her friends could only say a few words!
After seeing the benefits from Annie, we did the same thing with our new baby Brandon, and have had very similar success.
I have loved using baby sign language and I hope that as many parents as possible will be able to experience the same benefits and joy as our family has.
Andrea Burton Ploehn